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		<title>End the Tattletale Trauma</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 16:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Theresa McGee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have all heard the phrase &#8220;don&#8217;t be a tattletale&#8221;.  It was likely muttered by an adult trying to gain some sort of control over continual interruptions in a classroom setting. Although well intended, the phrase sends a mixed message to children on how to deal with peer conflict. I have significantly cut back on [...]]]></description>
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We have all heard the phrase &#8220;don&#8217;t be a tattletale&#8221;.  It was likely muttered by an adult trying to gain some sort of control over continual interruptions in a classroom setting.  Although well intended, the phrase sends a mixed message to children on how to deal with peer conflict.</p>
<p>I have significantly cut back on unnecessary &#8220;reporting&#8221; in my classroom using the <em>&#8220;Need to Know&#8221;</em> technique.  While I secretly appreciate when inappropriate behavior is reported, many times the information is just not something I <em>need to know</em>.</p>
<p>The student reporting can be divided into two simple categories: &#8220;need to know&#8221; and &#8220;don&#8217;t need to know&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>Need to know:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>If someone is <strong>hurt</strong> (sick, bleeding, crying, etc.)</li>
<li>If <strong>behavior of someone is dangerous</strong> (someone is standing on a chair, someone poked with a pencil, tripped, pinched, hit, etc.)</li>
<li>Have a <strong>problem that you have tried to solve, but cannot on own</strong>.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t need to know:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>If a another student is not following the exact directions.</strong> (These are actions I might be aware of, or will catch on to shortly.)</li>
<li><strong>Feelings were hurt or student is accidentally touched/bumped. </strong>(Try to allow child to solve problem on their own for 1st offense.)</li>
</ul>
<p>Once you have discussed your expectations and role play &#8220;need to know&#8221; scenarios, consistency in action will determine success.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Example scenarios:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Donna reports that Brad is holding a couple markers in his hand.  While Brad isn&#8217;t supposed to have anything in his hand, it is not worth stopping instruction to address it.  In this case I would ask Donna &#8220;Is this a <em>need to know</em>?&#8221; Upon reflection her answer would likely be &#8220;No&#8221; and we could continue instruction while reinforcing understanding of the technique.</li>
<li>Danell reports that Bill said something mean to him.  Ask, &#8220;Is this a <em>need to know</em>?&#8221;  Danell says yes, because he told Bill to stop and he did it again.  At this point, since the child tried to handle it himself and it didn&#8217;t work, this has become a bully situation and it needs to be addressed by an adult.</li>
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<p>While we want to help students solve their problems, often <a href="http://www2.scholastic.com/browse/article.jsp?id=3747942">empowering them to solve it on their own</a> is the best for the child, teacher, and classroom environment.  Situations where I encourage students to solve their own problems and use their own words are:  someone . . . colored on my paper, copied my idea, won&#8217;t share, is humming, made a face, didn&#8217;t clean up (see <a href="http://theteachingpalette.com/2008/10/05/the-clean-up-map/">Clean-up map</a> to address this problem).</p>
<p><em>Thank you to Gail Edgerton for inspiring &#8220;Need to Know&#8221;.</em></p>
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